Sometimes losing someone you love ain't even the worst part.
The worst part is picturing them with someone else.
As selfish as it sounds, seeing someone you use to be with, hugged up, laughing, enjoying the company of someone else is the worst felling in the world! Especially when that person broke up with you.
It make you not want to go anywhere in fear of seeing them with someone else. It makes you not want to answer the phone in fear of your friends telling you they saw them somewhere with someone else.
Kinda just makes you want to move to another state or something.
There should be some kind of agreement between lovers.
You should sit down with your lover right now and say, "Hey Lover, when we break up one of us should move out of the area or something."
It's a tough situation. Everyone knows how it feels to hold on to a relationship just because you didn't want to let that person go to another.
As childish and selfish and whatever else you want to call it, as it may be, It's just reality.
It's just the way humans feel towards things they feel they own.
For example, if you had a car and it ended up being repoed because you couldn't make the payments and then one day you see someone else driving it on the street.
You would feel hurt!
Its like Damn! That was my car! And that person is just driving in it all happy, in my car!
Why do we feel this way?
Even if you so happened to move on and found another lover, we still cringe every time we even think about somebody else stroking the hell out of your ex-girl. Or another girl receiving the love from your ex-man.
Something childish inside of you, something devilish just makes you wish that your ex-significant other never finds another.
As fucked up as it may sound, you cant deny that you never felt that way before.
The truth is when your with someone so long you cant picture them being with someone besides you.
But with the many heartaches and heartbreaks that love comes with, maybe its something we as people are just going to have to get use too.
Mike 3G.
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